Yesterday was always going to be quite an interesting day for a variety of reasons, but it started off dull and gloomy with a smattering of rain but no doubt it might get a bit better later on. The evening before I had attended the latest one in our U3A Curry Club events in a local Indian restaurant and I have to say that the food was excellent and a good time was had by all. I got there at about one minute past the appointed starting hour and the entire table was full apart from one space so evidently I must learn that this group of U3A’s are exceptionally prompt for any event that is organised (which I had noticed before on our coach to Kedleston Hall in Derbyshire) trip. I happened to be sitting opposite the U3A member who had organised this particular restaurant trip and who I know is also a member of the Classical Music Group. Over dinner, he was waxing lyrical about a local Bowls club which he reckons was a wonderful source of friendship and bonhomie. For a modest membership fee, one could join as a ‘social’ member and enjoy all of the facilities without necessarily playing bowls if one did not wish to but some instruction was provided as part of the membership fee. I feel fairly fully committed at the moment but this is something to bear in mind for the dark and dreary days of the autumn and winter so it is something that I might consider, particularly as it had received such an enthusiastic endorsement. Later on in the day, I have a Tai Chi trip to fit into the early morning and then a recently arranged dental appointment in the afternoon. Yesterday is the opening day of the World Cup and from about 6.30 in the evening we are promised first the opening ceremony and then a match between South Africa and Mexico. As Mexico is one of the co-hosts, this match will have a particular significance and is probably worth watching for some quite exciting football so I may indulge in this during the evening. As a sign of the times, I have just heard a news item that all UK prison windows are to be fitted with special grills to prevent the delivery of both drugs and mobile phones delivered by drone and I can only imagine what hellholes British prisons might be at the moment, given the lack of investment in them over the years and the record prison population. For the record, the United Kingdom—particularly England and Wales—consistently maintains the largest and highest per-capita prison population in Western Europe, despite overall crime rates trending downward. The UK locks up around 145-160 individuals per 100,000 people, outstripping similar European nations. A clearer breakdown reveals how the UK stacks up against its peers as in England & Wales the rate sits at approximately 146-159 prisoners per 100,000 people whereas Scotland has the highest incarceration rate in the UK, at about 162 per 100,000. The western European average is much lower, at roughly 80–85 prisoners per 100,000 and the UK rate far exceeds the rates in comparable countries like the Netherlands (65) and Germany (67) which is less than half.
In the morning, I went along and had my normal ‘Tai Chi’ session, after which I sat at the ‘chatty’ table n the Methodist Centre and had some good chats with one or two of the regulars who I have got to know quite well. One of them is shortly to celebrate her 64th year of marriage which is almost worthy of a newspaper article, I should imagine. She is an ex mental health nurse and by her demeanour. I am sure she has helped many people through crises in their lives. Then it was time to go home and I prepared quite a large saucepan full of vegetables (onions, peppers, green beans and a few chicken pieces) and I tarted it up a little with some dark soy sauce (to darken it up a little), brown fruity sauce and some onion gravy. I made far too much so half is saved for another day. Today was always going to be a ‘milestone’ type of day as it is one calendar year since Meg’s funeral. To mark the event, I lit some tea lights in front of Meg’s photograph and then recited (from memory) the second verse of ‘Danny Boy’ which is actually a voice calling from the grave. The last two lines of the eight line stanza are particularly poignant as deceased person person calls from the grave to the grieving relative left behind:
‘And you will bend and tell me that you love me / And I shall sleep in peace until you come to me’
Then with my ritual over, I paid a visit to my dentist as a visit arranged only yesterday as I was offered a slot because of a cancellation although my next ‘normal’ visit would have been in August. I had the happy experience that my checkup revealed that no treatment was needed so this is always pleasant to know. Whilst I was waiting for my appointment, a customer went to the reception desk and enquired how much a full set of implanted teeth would cost and was given a verbal quote of £30,000. I thought this extraordinary but on my return home, I consulted the web only to be informed that a full set of implanted teeth typically costs between £20,000 and £40,000 in the UK, making the £30,000 estimate figure quoted about par for the course. The patient dashed out with the comment that he would rather be fitted with dentures!. Later on in the day, we have the opening ceremony of the World Cup and already some controversy has arisen. One of Arica’s outstanding referees who hails from Somalia (a state hated and reviled by Donald Trump) has been denied an entry visa to the USA on the grounds that he has associated with ‘bad actors’ (whatever that means) and on these grounds alone has been refused entry and so cannot officiate as was planned. The FIFA president has made a craven statement that those who are upset by this decision should ‘get over it’ but I would have hoped that expressions of support for the banned referee should have made by members of the international footballing community. The latest news is that the Somali referee Omar Artan will officiate the 2026 UEFA Super Cup between PSG and Aston Villa after he was turned away from the US. Artan was only days away from officiating in his first World Cup, but when he touched down at Miami International Airport, he was questioned for 11 hours, held in a cell and then put on a plane back home. As an act of solidarity, UEFA and the Confederation of African Football (CAF) handed the Somali a prestigious consolation, being appointed referee of the Super Cup in Salzburg on 12 August.