I was not joined in the park on the evening before last but nonetheless felt the need to go out and get some fresh air. So I went to our local park to enjoy some cooling breezes and sat on the favourite bench which Meg and I used to occupy nearly every day in our trips to the park. In her last year, she used to be pushed in her wheelchair but before that our respite on this particular bench was a daily occurrence. It is quite a strange thought to look or over the vista of the park and to know that Meg was seeing almost exactly the same thing. As I have mentioned before, by an extraordinary twist of fate, my American friend and her mother used to occupy the same seat but at different times of the day which is why our paths dd not cross in that time period. Yesterday, I received one of those particularly welcome emails from a distant cousin asking whether we might meet later in the month, to which have enthusiastically responded. Actually, the cousin is not very distant but the grand daughter of Meg’s uncle Teddy and Meg and I as university students were asked to be god-parents to her at her christening in about 1968. She has now retired as a teacher and lives in Bolton but Meg and I managed to see her and her mother (an opera singer no less!) on at least a couple of occasions. We have agreed to meet in an RHS garden centre in Bridgewater which is almost just down the road for us. I explained that my son and daughter-in-law were on holiday but I am sure would love to make the acquaintance of some distant cousins who they have never actually met but I am sure will make a very joyous family occasion. Being an ‘only one’ and born when Meg’s parents were in their 40’s, these cousins are probably the last of Meg’s surviving cousins but they are a delightful family and now that we are all retired, I am sure we can see a lot more of each other. Very unfortunately, they did not manage to attend Meg’s funeral a year ago as it had been a long scheduled ‘hand-over’ date for my cousin’s husband on the occasion of his own retirement but I have a spare ‘Order of Service’ I can take for them. In the meanwhile I have Tai Chi to which to look forward this morning and a Curry Club dinner in the early evening. One little item of news which attracted my attention was the official pardon granted to Ruth Ellis who was the last women to be hanged in 1955. She shot her partner but nowadays would be recognised as a victim of domestic abuse (she had been hit so hard in the stomach that she suffered a miscarriage). The death penalty was the only available at the time for murder but even the judge in her trial pleaded for clemency but he was ignored. Technically speaking, Ruth Ellis’s crime has not been pardoned but the sentence was commuted from death to life imprisonment and although 71 years after the event may bring a smidgeon of solace to her surviving relatives. Most people will never have heard of Ruth Ellis but her case was very widely reported at the time.
In have just read I todays ‘Sky News‘ that the Inland revenue has admitted that it may have over-taxed 1.4 million pensioners with an error in the way that the state pension was calculated. But before we all throw up in hands in glee, the amounts are question are miniscule ` about £1.74 a year for three years – so in the fullness of time, we might expect a refund of £5 in total. They will probably just adjust our tax codes so that they do not have to reimburse any real money as well. My American friend and I have been in communication to work out a joint strategy how we are simultaneously going to avoid the heat, watch the football and enjoy ourselves over the next few days. Tomorrow, we are doing our best to keep out of the sun (even more important for my friend as she is fair-skinned) but we are going to meet in the park tomorrow, spend the day together in my house or garden on Saturday where we hunt out cool spots and/or use my big fan where it is cool, go to Solihull on Sunday to get a new TV bought from John Lewis in the morning and then go to a (free) recorder concert in the afternoon in the local parish church, and finally get he car serviced on Monday. I suspect that the hot spell may well last for at bast the best part of another week after which we could all do with some torrential thunderstorms. The more I think about it, the more relieved I am that Meg did not have to live through this terribly hot spell which I think she would not have survived (and the same goes for very aged mother of my American friend) In the evening, it just happens to be the designated night for our ‘Curry Club’ monthly venture but it is not the best of evenings in which to consume a hot curry! We have the football later on in the evening between France and Morocco which a repeat of a similar match held at the same stage in the competition in the last Word Cup. But I was astonished to discover that the match is to be referred by a panel of five Argentinian judges and Argentina have a vested interest in ensuring that France does not reach the finals and pose a great threat to Argentina. With the late VAR decisions in the Argentina v. Egypt match in which the Egyptians had a goal disallowed because of a rough-and-tumble contact some 17 seconds before the goal was scored, there are some voices arguing that FIFA and the inappropriate utilisation of VAR technology are being used to determine the outcome of some matches. Now that Trump has demonstrated how pliable FIFA can be when subject to political pressure, it perhaps comes as no surprise that conspiracy theories and shouts of ‘fix’ are starting to arise. I saw a very well argued presentation on YouTube not arguing ‘fix’ as such but indicating that using VAR for situations in which it was never intended was actually subverting and not enhancing the game.