The night before last, I indulged myself and really enjoyed watching the last pf the mini-series of 3 docudramas entitled ‘Dirty Water’ showing, in great and graphic detail how the privatised, and not particularly well regulated, water industry has made vast profits but regularly polluted our rivers and coastal areas. What was so shocking was the revelation that in a desire to cut ‘red tape’ successive governments had rolled back their regulatory functions and had had asked the water industry to regulate itself, which it had manifestly failed to do. Channel 4 are very good at producing these docudramas and I wonder what impact the programmes will actually have. Just before I was getting ready for bed, I read my texts and my good University of Winchester friend whose wife is in a similar situation to Meg had sent me a text where it felt as though he needed some support. So I phoned him and we had a good long chat on the phone and I hoped that I could be of some help to him as all of the things he is currently experiencing as his wife drifts away I have experienced with Meg about a year ago. I got up pretty early in the morning having had a sleepless patch during the night and made the suggestion to my friend that he assemble together a series of photographs that will document his wife’s life. I have done this for Meg and every so often I look at the website I created for Meg which contains my funeral eulogy but also links to a slideshow of most of the photographs that my son and I could find which we assembled in a roughly chronological order. Without wishing to sound in any sense macabre, I am hoping that my friend takes up my suggestion but it will help to alleviate the inevitable rushing around that inevitable occupies one between the death of a loved one and the consequent funeral service. I must say that when I visit Meg’s website, I enjoy some bitter-sweet moments when I survey the photographs from the earliest to the latest which chronicle her life and I am still pleased with the efforts that I made at the time- there is a collection of 59 photos in the collection and more will be added as they come to light, no doubt. We are holding ourselves in readiness for the results of the Manchester by election which will be announced in the small hours of tomorrow morning, and the Labour party seemed to be set up for a good kicking by the electorate. The really interesting question is whether the Labour party will be defeated from the right (the Reform party) or the left (the Greens) As things stand on polling day itself, the election is too close to call between Labour, Reform and Green but a major upset may well be on the cards. There are some slight straws in the wind that the Greens might actually be a whisker ahead. A recent poll suggests Nigel Farage’s Reform UK could be narrowly defeated by either of the other two parties. And the new poll suggests that, among those people most likely to turn out to vote, the Greens are ahead on 30 per cent with the other two parties each on 28 per cent. However, tactical voting is bound to play a part as well in this Denton and Gorton election.
Yesterday proved to be quite an interesting day. I attended my Tai Ch class as I normally do each Thursday morning after which I had coffee with a couple of my class mates and then carried on chatting with others at the ‘chatty table’ in the Methodist centre. Then I got home and cooked myself a normal ‘meat and two veg’ meal and after I had completed the washing up, my son and daughter-in-law turned up to help me clear out the last of the ‘hobbit holes’ This particular storage area was devoted to some rolls of Christmas paper, and a very large but old suitcase. which we had stored some quite high quality floral curtains. These we are going to offer to our domestic help in the first instance but otherwise they will be charity shop bound. But the most important stored items were several large boxes stuffed full of travel guides from past holidays all of which were junked but more importantly family photographs going back over the decades. The very earliest of these we must have been given by Meg’s parents as there were several of these taken when Meg was very young and the most charming of these was taken when Meg was being taught how to play the piano. There are several photographs of the generation before Meg so I am going to hang onto some of these so that we next are in contact with Meg’s cousins. There are a huge number of the kinds of folders that the chemists used to give you when photographs were handed for developing – some of these will be seaside shots whilst yet others will be photographs taken of us holidaying in the Lake District. At the moment, we just have a huge pile of these on our landing and evidently, a job each day for the next weeks and months ahead is to devote a certain amount of time each day to go through them all and working out what to retain (and label if I can) and others to throw away. But we are taking about six decades of photos here so there is a lot of material to assess and process. Whilst this particular hobbit hole was ended, we have discovered a point at which there may have been a leaking valve or junction in some of the central heating pipes which are located in the eaves so we may have to ask the very good person who services our central heating boiler to have a look at this for us and see if a repair needs to be effected. We not appear to have see evidence of a leak in the house but there are suspicious water stains on the block flooring but if we had not cleared out the hobbit hole, then this would never have been discovered at all. Later on in the evening, I will get myself into bed to watch ‘Question Time’ on BBC1 which can sometimes, via audience reaction, give us an indication of the public sentiment over particular issues and, in this respect, the whole ‘Andrew’ affair will probably draw the wrath of both panel members and audience alike.